Women Break Themselves

Men who are delusional, narcissistic and misguided always reveal themselves. They are the ones who attribute more power to themselves than they actually have.

They are always declaring and decreeing they have either made a woman, or broken a woman. They are responsible for her lot in life. They are the lock and key to her happiness. The loss of their “love” is the reason why she lost herself.

Chile, please.

How ridiculous does that sound?

When a bad relationship ends and a woman acts unseemingly, unnerved, crazy or simply MAD it is because she and she alone betrayed herself.

She did not listen to her mama’s advice.

She did not listen to her sister’s advice. She did not listen to her best friend’s advice.

She did not listen to her own advice.

She refused to honor her “something told me” and her gut. Her godtuition.

A woman’s intuition is her god talking to her. Leading her. Directing her. Warning her. When she is blindsided and wounded by her desires, it is only because she decided to put her trust in some one outside of her.

She decided to believe a “him” instead of her, her.

Tragic.

Surely, this decision will always end with her having to put herself back together. Not because someone else broke her, but because she broke her.

The god in her is going to lay her out on the altar as a living sacrifice with her blood dripping from her members.

Self betrayal is soul suicide and

she will either do the woman work and save herself or bleed out on the altar and that my friend is her doing.

A man doesn’t have the power to do anything unless a woman gives it to him. Men are simply executors of the decisions women make. We are always the god in the situation.

They are merely men.

It is beyond time to snatch our power back, reclaim our lives and take full responsibility for our outcomes.

We cannot rise if we continue to feed into a victim narrative and allow men to walk around here thinking they have the power to break us. We birthed them. They will never be more powerful than the vessel. The source. Ever.

We betray ourselves when we don’t believe ourselves and make decisions accordingly. We betray ourselves when we do not bow to the gods we are.

Plain. Simple. Period.

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