THE BIG BLACK DICK As I travel the world, I see images, wood carvings, incense holders, plates, glasses, and even earrings depicting the Big Black Dick. As flattering as it may be for some black men, as a black woman, their equal partner, suitable companion, equally yoked ride or die, I find it exhausting. Accurate of our men, yes. Objectifying of our men, yes. They are more than big dicks. They are intelligent, graceful, majestic, warrior beings who are blessed beyond measure.

In this cosmetic glam era, women and girls have to be intentional about building confidence and worth because this culture is not. This culture teaches us that something is wrong with every part of our body. It sells a product for almost every body part, starting with our head. Wigs…

Life is a beautiful journey. To date, you have had some licks. Some hurts. Some disappointments and you have handled it all very well. As you leave home for Kent State University, stay. Finish your studies. Go to graduate school. Do what God called you to do. …

The present and the past collided in the Riverboat incident in Montgomery, Alabama yesterday in a way that has awakened the righteous, terrified the guilty and outraged the numb. Some people have underestimated the significance of this ass whooping moment sanctioned by our ancestors. Black men in historic Alabama were…

It is a lot of chatter in these feminist streets about the work women do. We are at each other's throats again about how quiet quitting hurt us, the soft life is lazy, and the lazy life has set us back to the years of Wilma Flintstone and Betty Rubble. …

Ya’ll. I had to get my whole mind right after the foolishness with G. Sitting with myself and digging into what the Universe was allowing me to see, hear, touch, feel. Know. I do everything. hard. I work hard. I play hard. I laugh hard. I love hard. I loved…

Creative writing with a hint of salaciousness. Jezebel is a modern day shero. God, the Gospel & the G-Spot — My Free Woman (wordpress.com) Jezebel: Who do I say that I am? — My Free Woman (wordpress.com) 12 Inches: Jezebel — My Free Woman (wordpress.com) Sammy’s Plea to Jezebel —…

The Hostage Situation: Closure Closure is defined as an comforting or satisfying sense of finality, an act or process of closing something, especially an institution, thoroughfare, or frontier, or of being closed. Closure refers to having a sense of understanding, peace, and accepted finality of the relationship whether it’s ended…